Tips to make sure mealtimes are a good experience for families
- Make mealtimes calm and relaxed
- You (as the parent) decide what, when, and where your child eats
- Your child decides how much they eat, or if they eat at all
- Don’t coax or bride your child to eat
- Meals should only last up to 30 minutes
- After this meals can become tasking and often won’t eat more
- Eat together as a family
- Eating as a family promotes good health and wellbeing in children
- Gives them a chance to see how adults eat, ands encourages them to try new foods
- Remove distractions such as screens and devices
- Offer meals at regular times
- Children need 3 meals and 2-3 snacks in between per day, with water or milk in between
- Don’t offer extra snacks in between – they stop children eating well during their main meals and can be low in nutrition
- By having food available at regular times, children can learn to listen to their hunger cues
- Let your child be messy when they eat
- Wait until the end of their meal before you clean hands and face
- Offer a variety of foods that have different tastes, colours, and textures
- You can let your child feed themselves through finger foods, appropriate for their age
- Also give them a fork and/or spoon
- You can let them choose parts of the meal from two options
- Be mindful about how you talk about different foods
- Children will eat what is familiar and tasty
- Try not to label food as “good” or “bad”, “treats” or “junk”
- If your child starts turning away, shaking their head or closing their mouth, it means they are full and the meal is at an end
- Don’t give up if your child does not want to eat a new food
- When offering new foods, try introducing them with a combination of food they are familiar with
- Make sure the child sees you trying new foods
- It can take 20 or 30 tries to get them to eat new foods
- Keep offering and stay patient
- Rejecting food is a normal developmental behaviour
- You do not need to meet all their nutritional needs today
- Think about meeting their needs over the week
Adapted by: Lively Eaters
Source used: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vdOmq8SGfrU (Rachel Lindeback)